Why Women Love Alpha Males

For as long as time has gone on, members of the opposite sex have been involved in a fishing scheme that is as complicated as life itself. Are men from Mars and women from Venus? No, I don’t think so…actually, I believe quite the opposite. We both seem to want the same thing in the end. To enjoy chasing for awhile, do a few catch and releases along the way, and finally snag “the big one” that seems to get away from so many. But what constitutes a big fish? Again, we are not really that different after all. If men want a woman who is a “lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets,” then women want the alpha male, plain and simple.

But what is the alpha male and why does “he” have our panties wet? As a general rule, the alpha male is a mover and a shaker, in and out of the bedroom. He is strong, has a dominant nature, and doesn’t take shit from people. He is the guy who comes to the bar alone, because he can, and then starts the party as soon as he arrives. Women want to sleep with him and men want to be him. Whether he is closing a business deal during working hours or finishing a woman off after hours, he does it with a confidence, charm, and skill that is almost surreal.

But why is this so sought after by the female population? Why do we constantly fantasize about being pushed against the wall by this persona? Simply put, women want a man who knows how to handle his business. While sensitivity is often welcomed within the boundaries of a private or intimate moment, it really isn’t that sexy on the job, in the bar, or during a conflict. Even the toughest, most independent woman wants someone who challenges her, stands up for her honor, and who can protect her. We, as women, also want to know that our man is competent and has our back.

So, whether you are talking about James Bond or Brad Pitt from fight club, the alpha male is self made, self-assured, and always up for any challenge. No fear, no hesitation, and no compromise…no matter what the odds say.

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